Decisions

There's a point in everyone's life where they have to make more than one hard decision. Whether it's what to have for lunch or what they want to do with the rest of their life. I'm currently at that point in my life. I seem to have this who plan figured out, but then something always comes along to make me think twice about it. Is it really what I want to do? Will I be happy for the rest of my life doing it? Then you have to factor in the things that "just happen" in life. I meet the "man of my dreams" the prince charming that is going to save me from everything, fall in love get married, have kids, live happily ever after. Yeah, right. Considering 50% of marriages don't last anymore, what's the point of even getting married?! Who knows. Women are the cause of divorce, and I'm not afraid to admit that. Women try to keep up with this whole image of what it was in the 40's when they stayed home, cooked, cleaned and catered to their husband hand and foot. But they still want to be independent and be able to work and be self-sufficient and when that's challenged, they don't like it. I'm sorry, but double standard much? They feel they need to impress the guy and they think that they can be everything and when it comes down to it, years later, they realize that it was all a front, somewhere along the line the woman goes nuts and BOOM divorce. Or the guy just gets sick of it and cheats. Women are so desperate it's almost pathetic. And I'm NOT saying all women. Many marriages still do last, but it's just what is instilled in our heads, we're looked at as sex objects and how can we be upset at that when we're the ones who gave ourselves that image? The media portrays women in a sense that they have to be skinny and flawless in order to be accepted or get the man of their dreams. So what else are guys supposed to think or feel about us? Society really needs a reality check. BIG TIME.

"Beauty is only temporary, but your mind lasts a lifetime" - Alicia Machado